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Happy Birthday Kellee & Kerry, Plus Mother’s Day

May 10, 2010

Sunday, May 9, 2010 – Today we celebrated 2 birthdays and Mother’s Day. Kellee and Kerry share the same birthday only they were born two years apart. I used to say it was just great planning on our part for our first two boys to be born on the same day but I know better. In the morning Kellee went to The Bridge in Ottumwa and Heidi, Kory & I went over to my sister Cindy’s house for a visit. Cindy’s son Marc was there with his wife Mandy and their 5 month old daughter Henley Joy. We had not had the opportunity to meet their little bundle of joy yet so it was a good opportunity to finally see the baby we had heard so much about. Plus my other sister Sue was there too. After visiting there we left and went to grandma Faithe’s for a combination birthday and Mother’s Day meal.  Grandma had fixed one of the boys’ favorite meals, ham balls with cheese potatoes. However, Kellee said that he could not taste it very well, all he got out of it was the texture, but very little taste. Now grandma thought it was because she didn’t use enough salt, but Kellee said that wasn’t it. Another side effect is appearing, his taste buds are being impacted and food does not taste the same. (On a side note, certain smells get to him as well. He said he even does not like the smell of his deodorant now because it reminds him of the treatments. He is going to change brands once treatments are completed. Heidi also picked up a room air freshener refill to take along to the Hope Lodge this week because Kellee mentioned the “sanitized” smell in the room there as a potential annoyance as well.) After we ate, there was the opening of cards and gifts and a there was much rejoicing. Kellee was tired and was leaving to go home and take a nap when Kelsey asked Kerry, what about the photos? For about every year since grandma moved to Pella when we celebrate the boys’ birthday, she has them hold up a piece of paper with their age on it and she takes a photo. We were able to catch Kellee before he left and took a couple of photos, of course they don’t always cooperate by standing still and holding the signs in the correct orientation!

Kellee and Kerry with their birthday signs.

The rest of the afternoon was a combination of naps, laundry and other prep work for the week. Heidi accompanies Kellee this week to Iowa City and will need to go through the Hope Lodge orientation as care giver there. Please pray for them this week. Heidi is still concerned about finding and preparing food for Kellee which is healthy and now with the new wrinkle of his taste buds throwing him a curve ball, it just adds to her concern over the food issue. The focus of the radiation this week is the ventricles of the brain, it is possible the side effects of being tired and nausea will be lessened, but the doctor was sure to warn us since everyone is different and reacts differently,  don’t get our expectations up too high thinking it will automatically be better.

A Show and Some Dutch Dancing

May 8, 2010

Saturday, May 8, 2010 – This morning someone brought over some meals, recipes, and snacks for us to take along to Hope Lodge next week. It was Gloria V. who brought the goodies over. Heidi had talked with her a church last Sunday and one of the things Heidi told here she worried about was making sure the food we made for and served to Kellee is healthy, especially during the week when in Iowa City. So Gloria contacted here this week saying she was going to stop by on Saturday with some items. She prayed with Heidi before she left, Heidi was truly blessed!      

Today is the last day of 75th anniversary Tulip Time and it was the day of the record-setting number of dancers in wooden shoes. Heidi and I were going to take part, but we just did not want to leave Kellee home alone so we made the decision to skip the dancing. Kellee got up @ 7:00 am for his Zofran pill and went back to sleep.  Kory was scheduled to work at Smokey Row 10:00 to 7:00 pm, and since he really couldn’t drive, I gave him a ride up to the town square. Kerry called me about 9:45 to see if Heidi & I were going to dance and if so, he and Kelsey wanted to dance with us, I told him we had decided not to dance. I detected a tinge of disappointment in his voice and I felt bad but by then there was not even enough time to change our mind and get uptown to dance. Later I texted Kerry to let him know we wanted to take a photo of he and Kelsey in their Dutch dancing garb. We were going to hook up with them either before or after they danced to take some pix.     

Kellee was scheduled to play in a show at the Open Bible church this afternoon, if he felt up to it. Actually Sons & Heirs were asked to play, but since Kerry was Dutch dancing, he wouldn’t have been able to play, so Kellee agreed to do a solo show. We drove Kellee up to the church and helped him unload his guitar and some Sons & Heirs merch (a.k.a. merchandise or items to sell, such as T-shirts, scarves and CD’s). There was one parking spot left in the parking lot so I took it and gladly paid the $5.00.  Kellee played some of the Sons & Heirs songs and some of the ones he wrote since he began his current journey. My sisters, Cindy and Sue came by for a little bit, but they couldn’t stay long because they were involved with the Parade of Provinces on the Tulip Toren during the afternoon program.   Kellee did share a bit about the origin of his songs, learning about the brain tumor and then the brain cancer diagnosis and treatment. He was able to tell how his faith had helped him along the way.  It was good for him to be able to have a chance to get out and perform some of his songs. I took a video of a couple of them and was going to try to post one here, but for some reason I could get it to work. I may try to figure it out later, but it is getting late and I wanted to at least get some photos posted.   

Kellee singing 5-8-10 at Tulip Time Show

After Kellee’s set I went to find Kerry and Kelsey and take some photos. Heidi and Kellee were going to meet me inside the grandstand area to watch the Dutch dancing. While we were waiting for the dance time Kerry said their dance square was going to be short a couple for the evening dance time and I volunteered Heidi & I to fill-in. I called Heidi to let here know.   We watched the dances and during the dance when the dancers are supposed to get a person from the crowd, Kerry and Kelsey picked Heidi and Kellee to dance. I didn’t get any photos because I was asked to dance too.  After the dances Heidi, Kellee & I went to get something to eat, we each got a sandwich and then funnel cake with the works.  However, did not stay uptown for the afternoon parade because Kellee was not feeling up to it.  We went home and Heidi &  I both napped.     

Kerry & Kelsey on 5-8-10

Kerry & Kelsey Dutch Dancing

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

After some adjustments to our Dutch costumes, and me trying on three different pants until I found one that fit, we left for uptown because we had made arrangements to meet Kerry & Kelsey at 6:45. Kellee stayed home because he wanted to watch the Jazz play.  We stopped in at Smokey Row to say hi to Kory and since he was getting off work at 7:00 he agreed to take some photos of us dancing. Before dancing we had the opportunity to meet Kelsey’s family, although her dad wasn’t there at that time.  Heidi & I had not Dutch danced for a few years anyway and were just hoping we didn’t mess up too much. Kerry agreed to coach us through it which he did every step of the way. The dancing starts with everyone in the group sitting in a line on top of the wooden shoes of the person behind them except for one person who is standing. When the dance music begins, the idea is for the standing person to pull up the next person and so on down the line. that did not work too well and I ended up on my behind on the street. That was really the only major mishap other than a few missteps along the way. When it came time to pick people out of the crowd to dance, Heidi and I had made a pact to just pick each other, we knew there was no way we could try to teach the dance to another person.  Kerry and Kelsey picked out her mom & dad to dance with them and that was when we saw Kelsey’s dad, but did not realize until he was heading back to the stands he was her dad. It wasn’t quite Dancing with the Stars but, we were able to get through it without getting too tired and totally embarrassing ourselves.    

Kent, Heidi, Kerry & Kelsey

     

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  

Kent & Heidi attempting to Dutch Dance

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  

The Finale...

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  

  

When the dancing was over, we went and got some more food, this time with Kory because he had not gotten to eat anything all day while he worked. Kory was meeting some friends to watch the parade and we had not brought any chairs so Heidi and I were not sure if we were going to stay and watch the parade. I thought I would call my sisters to see where they were at and maybe we could watch with them. But alas, they were not even uptown, so we decided to go home and watch the rest of the game with Kellee. It was a good game, but we didn’t like the outcome. Later we stayed up to watch SNL hosted by Betty White.   So another Tulip Time is in the books, and it was not a “normal” festival for us this year but you know that is just fine.  I didn’t watch a single minute of a single parade and I am okay with that too, how much does the parade vary from year to year anyway? I did however get plenty to eat, like that would ever be in question!   

   

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

Doctor Day with Tulips

April 30, 2010

Friday, April 30, 2010 – Doctor Day, Heidi & Kellee left for Iowa City early this morning for the last radiation treatment of the week. Below is Heidi’s summary of the day and week:

We’ve finished our 2nd week of treatment in Iowa City and have good news.  An MRI was taken Wednesday and it shows the tumor is reducing in size! – after only 9 treatments!  Which is what the Dr’s expected but seems amazing to me that results can be seen that quickly.  Kellee has one more week of the whole brain and spine radiation – which is the hardest on him.  Because such a large field is being covered by radiation he’s really tired and depends on those anti-nausea pills.  The hope is the nausea should lessen once the radiation is more focused in the brain.  He’s lost 10 lbs which is a little concerning but understandable.  Just need to get the most calories in the least amount of bites – a whole new thought process for me!  More good news – there is a room for us at Hope Lodge (the Ronald McDonald house for adults) on Monday!

Next week is Kent’s week with Kellee in Iowa City.  We’re managing fine, because of your prayers and support, they give us strength!  Kory comes home from school (Iowa State) next week, which will be nice so it’s not so quiet here at home during the week.  Then the following week Kerry will be home too after graduating from Central – Yea more people to mow the lawn!

And now for those of you who will not be in Pella to enjoy the tulips, here are a couple of photos of tulips taken this week. In case you didn’t know, Pella is a small town in Iowa which celebrates its Dutch heritage each year the first weekend in May with a festival. This year the dates are May 6, 7, & 8. For more information see Pella Tulip Time link -  http://www.pellatuliptime.com/

Red Tulips

Tulips

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