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Biopsy Thursday and the tumor is Re-named!

April 1, 2010

Thursday, April 1, 2010 -  Here we sit in the waiting room around 8:45 am, one of the members of the neurosurgery team just came to tell us the anesthesia went well and they were now moving on to positioning and prepping for the surgery. They will make about a 1″ long incision on the left side of the skull and then drill a hole, no larger than a dime to go in to retrieve a bit of the tumor to test. We asked again and they said it will be at least a week before we get results back from the pathology lab. They said they do not push for results because it is important to get this part right. So we know that even after today, we get to learn more about patience!

Now to go back and bit and bring us up to this point.When we got home after work Wednesday ,Kellee told us he had written, recorded and posted another song. This one is called, “I Will Rest” have a listen at – http://www.myspace.com/kelleevanhemertmusic  G-ma Faithe came over right then so we listened to it together.  We then finished packing and loaded the van. Heidi and I prayed for and with Kellee while in our kitchen as the last thing we did before we would leave.  We left Pella for Iowa City @ 7:00 last night, we got a couple of miles north of town and had to turn around to get Kellee’s insurance card (and phone charger). So then we left town again @ 7:15.  On the way to Iowa City we listened to songs from two bands Kellee has recently introduced us to. One is called Rend Collective Experiment, if you have listened to any of the songs Kellee has recorded lately, one of them was a cover of one of their songs called “Movements”. They are a worship band from across the pond, from somewhere in the UK I believe. Heidi suggested to Kellee to have The Bridge Band do the song “You Bled” as it is a great song! Check them out http://www.myspace.com/rendcollectiveexperiment  We arrived @ the home of Beth & Mike where we staying last night just before 9:00. They have graciously opened their home to us, which is such a blessing to not have to worry about getting a hotel and they are just 10 minutes from the hospital! When we arrived Mike was just taking cookies out of the oven and yes they were homemade. Just a short time later, Tami arrived when stood around in the kitchen and chatted for a while. (The kitchen really is the best room in most homes!) Sometime after 10 we then went downstairs to get ready for bed. While prepping Kellee told us he really wanted to re-name the tumor. Even though the character Dwight is annoying on the show, he does kind of like him and Kellee thinks the show would not be near as good without him. Therefore, he was going to think of a new name for the tumor. Even though Heidi & I kind of liked the name Dwight, since it is Kellee’s tumor, we were OK with him wanting to change the name. He landed on George as in “George Can’t stand ya” from Seinfeld. He felt that worked better for him, so the tumor is now officially called George.  We set four separate alarms to make sure we got up on time. The alarms worked as planned, Heidi and I were up @ 4:15 and then Kellee was up @ 5:00. Tami got up a bit later as she was going with us to the hospital.

We made it to parking ramp # 2 across from Kinnick stadium (a little Hawkeye lingo for the Hawk fans there) on time and made our way into the hospital, up elevator H to the fifth floor and to pre-op admissions. We checked in and were shown to a pretty packed waiting room. After about 10 minutes Kellee was called, so Heidi & I walked with him to the pre-op area. The hallway to the prep area was full of hospital gurneys (small hospital beds on wheels) ready for the days surgery patients. We were amazed at how many there were.  Kellee was seated in a recliner in pre-op area # 15, most of them were full and we were not sure exactly how many were there. There they had him change into a gown and robe, put some compression socks on him and footies. (Kellee said he can now tell his G-pa Bob he knows what the socks are like!)

Kellee showing off compression socks in pre-op

They took vitals and eventually put 9 more of the fiducials on his head for the MRI.

Fiducials all ready for the MRI

Went then down to the Lower Level for the MRI.  As we left the pre-op area, most of the waiting patients had gone on to their medical trials and most of the gurneys were no longer in the hall. Kellee walked to the MRI.  While in for the MRI, Kellee had an I.V. inserted and he said it really wasn’t that bad this time, but he still hates needles!  Other than a bit of purse confusion  between Heidi and Tami (ask Heidi about it) the MRI went smoothly. However, we did not hear the tumor was gone. Not what we wanted,  we but we know God has a plan!  Then it was back to the fifth floor into another waiting room. An anesthesiologist came in to tell us how the go to sleep part of the procedure would go.  Then they took Kellee with them and we went to the 6th floor to the day of surgery waiting room.  There were quite a few  people were in the waiting room in support family, friends and loved ones. Some of them we had noticed in the pre-op waiting room.  And so now we, like them wait a bit more…

Heidi Just pointed out to me this Psalm she was reading while waiting in the waiting room -   Psalm 27:14 “Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD.”

Songs on Healing

March 30, 2010

Sunday, March 28, 2010 – Woke up @ 4:00 am this morning, couldn’t get back to sleep. Got up and went into the living room and tried to pray, but did not really know how to pray. I find that anymore  I am praying for one thing; healing for Kellee. With all the people telling us they are praying and many telling us they are believing God will heal him, shouldn’t he have been healed by now? Why isn’t his double vision gone? Wouldn’t a sign the tumor was gone or shrinking be the double vision going away? Please Jesus, be the miracle worker in our lives!

Both Heidi & I went to the 10:30 service in the auditorium at TRC today. We got there a bit late and found a couple of seats in the back row. Most of the songs either had a version of the word healing in them or referenced healing. I couldn’t sing and keep dry eyes. Andrew told me he woke up @ 4:00 this morning to pray for Kellee, he wasn’t sure what it meant, but perhaps we could talk later. And here I thought I woke up at 4:00 because I couldn’t sleep. Maybe I am supposed to make better use of the times when sleep won’t come, oh I don’t know…praying perhaps?

Monday, March 29, 2010 – Today work was, well, work. I feel guilty, there are times I find I just have to get up from my desk and walk. I can’t concentrate on one thing for too long because my thoughts keep going to Dwight the tumor. So I get up and try to do a bit of praying, but mostly I just walk to try to clear my head so I can get back to work, at least for a moment.  

Monday when we got home from work, Kellee told us he had posted another song, this one is called “Everything New” – http://www.myspace.com/kelleevanhemertmusic . Monday night was once again time for Barefoot Warriors at TRC. Since it was Andrew’s last night, there were many more men than usual in attendance tonight. During one section of prayer time, I was led to John 14: 12-14 where Jesus said “…I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will even do greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Son may bring glory to the Father. You may ask me anything in my name, and I will do it.” (emphasis added by me) I was able to talk with one of the guys there about this verse and he told me I needed to have faith and believe it (healing for Kellee) would happen and then I would know it. I told him I wanted to know it happened so I could then believe it. He prayed for me and we then joined in a time of worship. It was another great night of prayer. We ended with a time of prayer and blessing for Andrew. Then it was off to HyVee to get milk, home to finish this blog and now it is time for bed. I hope I can sleep tonight!

The Ride Home and the tumor is named.

March 15, 2010

Thursday, March 11, 2010 – On the way home we stopped at Wendy’s to grab a quick bite. We did not talk much and after a long period of silence my son said, “We need to name the tumor, perhaps a name of someone really annoying that we would hate to be around.” I immediately thought of a couple people who work at the same place it do, but decided it best not to suggest any of those names. He suggested to name it Dwight after Dwight Schrute from The Office. So at least for now the tumor is called Dwight. We decided to listen to a podcast and picked one by Perry Noble from NewSpring church. We arrived home about 9:15 pm. My son went down to the basement. .  We had both teared up many times while at the hospital, but felt we needed to be strong for our son, however finally in the safety of our home, my wife broke down and cried as I just held her. That night I put this note on my Facebook page: Just got back from spending the day in Iowa City, where we discovered our son has a brain tumor. We do not know any more than that at this time. Please pray it is benign! We went to bed and tried to sleep.


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